Firstdatetips

First Date Tips

 

When guys ask me for dating tips, one of the most common questions I encounter is, "How do I ask a girl on a date?" I honestly think that this "mentality" is rife among the male species and is just not ideal. What do I mean?


The first thing to pluck out of your system is not to think of "asking-a-girl-out" as a date because of the following reasons:


? It's a dead giveaway. She knows you like her, giving her an upper hand in the game. 

? If she says "yes", all the expectations, pressures and defenses are up. 

? If she says "no", aside from the fact that it sucks, things could turn sour or awkward between the two of you.


A casual or innocent invite always work for me. Everytime I get a positive response, I keep in mind some crucial points that I need to do and avoid. Let me share with you a couple of these first date advice.


Things to Avoid


No Movies and Expensive Restaurants - these activities cost you a lot of money and time but do not yield favorable results. I don't get the point of wasting 2 hours inside the movie house where you have no chance of establishing a connection since you have to keep your mouth shut all the time. Eating at expensive restaurants entails so much formality that adds more pressure and keeps each other's defenses up. It could stop the both of you from acting silly and have fun.


Spending too much money on a girl on your first date translates to "you trying to impress her", which should not be the case.


Don't include your Family and Friends - The thing about spending your first date with your friends and family is it could spew awkward and embarrassing situations.


What to do on a first date...


Hang out -Do something casual and comfortable. Although some traditional first date advice tells you to bring her to a restaurant, this is not always true. Women dig casual and cheap thrills because it allows them to be comfortable. Also, this gives you the opportunity to turn the tables on her and let her prove how much fun she is to talk to and hang out with.


Bring her to a coffee shop or a cocktail lounge where you always hang out. Invite her to help you shop for a present for your bestfriend's birthday or help you pick u good book to read.


Afternoon or morning activities always work since walking around burns nervous energies and eases tension. Most importantly, you'll encounter and see a lot of things that will provide you with fun and interesting conversation topics. It makes everything unpredictable and spontaneous, which is more fun!


Here are a few more first date tips to make sure she wants to see you again...


Show Her Where You Live - This may be an unusual first date advice but believe me, it works. Pretend to forget something at your house and invite her in. Let her walk around while you look for your thing. This way, inviting her over to your place later won't be that challenging anymore since she already knows your environment, she's seen you in it and she knows you're going to behave yourself.


Let her Talk More - avoid questions answerable by a yes or no. As for you, keep things vague and don't talk about your problems. Keep the spotlight on her. Again, don't forget to maintain the attitude that this is her chance to impress you.


Don't Drag It Out - keep the date to a minimum of 2 hours. See to it that you're the one who ends the date as it creates an impression that your time is precious. Crucial first date advice: end it when the date is at its high point so you leave her wanting more.


Now that we've covered some first date tips and first date advice, let me know you how to CLOSE THE DEAL at the end of the date. I want to give you my most powerful (and controversial) seduction secrets. But before we proceed, please heed this warning...

 

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